tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post5885767855240724727..comments2023-09-11T08:59:45.073-04:00Comments on The Smarshy Files: We're Done.Smarshyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15315526599497405116noreply@blogger.comBlogger49125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-85995532998664875212006-12-20T16:19:00.000-05:002006-12-20T16:19:00.000-05:00Oh I am so sorry, I am thinking of you both and se...Oh I am so sorry, I am thinking of you both and sending lots of cyberhugs up to you. I know there are no "good words" but I hope you know how bad I feel about your news, please take good care of each other and know that we are all here thinking of you.Kirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17894442143508446312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-17950604385051761262006-12-20T14:44:00.000-05:002006-12-20T14:44:00.000-05:00I just found your blog and I'm really sorry to hea...I just found your blog and I'm really sorry to hear the news, especially before the holidays. Please know that many of us are thinking of you.<br /><br />On a complete side note-- what interests me the most about your blog is that you are male...so it's interesting to see all of this infertility crap from a male's point of view. It's mostly us girls who blog about it.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01851059236142490659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-12062573550767161632006-12-20T14:23:00.000-05:002006-12-20T14:23:00.000-05:00I am comment #50--that should tell you that even u...I am comment #50--that should tell you that even us strangers out here are thinking of you!OHNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03856294075428012923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-7056802323461059852006-12-20T09:50:00.000-05:002006-12-20T09:50:00.000-05:00Very disappointed on your behalf. What a shitty ti...Very disappointed on your behalf. What a shitty time of year for bad news. Hang in there.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04367588398516955834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-26027886249898176962006-12-20T09:24:00.000-05:002006-12-20T09:24:00.000-05:00I am so very sorry! Give your wife another big hu...I am so very sorry! Give your wife another big hug.<br /><br />Thinking of both of you.soralishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08874975328481113933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-59184226888123940972006-12-20T00:45:00.000-05:002006-12-20T00:45:00.000-05:00I am very sorryI am very sorryCibelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02361386515177047271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-88753312702977049752006-12-19T18:36:00.000-05:002006-12-19T18:36:00.000-05:00Smarshy,
I've only started reading your blog but ...Smarshy,<br /><br />I've only started reading your blog but you have every thought and prayer I have right now.<br /><br />It can so hard and disempowering watching our wives through all of this.<br /><br />I've commented elsewhere that it's the "phone calls" that I hate most - so many of them from nurses that try to care, but are still just voices, a wife at home or at her office, you at yours - this isn't supposed to happened through disembodied phone calls. We're supposed to be there, right beside them at all times, but it's just one more curve that we're forced to deal with.Berthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04794668957447380767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-62708593836059801962006-12-19T17:54:00.000-05:002006-12-19T17:54:00.000-05:00I'm so very sorry, Smarshy. I'm so sad for you an...I'm so very sorry, Smarshy. I'm so sad for you and M, and for Buggins even though she doesn't know.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04077459860855798660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-24109544725852789032006-12-19T17:35:00.000-05:002006-12-19T17:35:00.000-05:00darn. I am so sorry. this just sucks. this is w...darn. I am so sorry. this just sucks. this is where I wonder whether it would have been easier if it has just been a BFN in the first place. love each other. she needs you right now.Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168704988026789910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-62869669081353040842006-12-19T15:22:00.000-05:002006-12-19T15:22:00.000-05:00I am praying for you and your family. I am so, so...I am praying for you and your family. I am so, so sorry.<br /><br />--SoCoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-70743070239330998232006-12-19T14:36:00.000-05:002006-12-19T14:36:00.000-05:00It's all been said. "I'm sorry" just doesn't cut ...It's all been said. "I'm sorry" just doesn't cut it.<br /><br />Many hugs to you, M, and the Buggins.A.M.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08261014396340349808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-72241484337088690432006-12-19T14:21:00.000-05:002006-12-19T14:21:00.000-05:00I am so very sorry. You and your wife are both in ...I am so very sorry. You and your wife are both in my thoughts.seattlegalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07596706264163818014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-42582856150156118362006-12-19T12:57:00.000-05:002006-12-19T12:57:00.000-05:00So sorry Smarsh! Much love to you and M and the B...So sorry Smarsh! Much love to you and M and the Buggins. I'm sorry this holiday season brings such pain to you and your family. You're both in my thoughts.<br />Take care!hope548https://www.blogger.com/profile/11951199252401108222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-59614894966684044562006-12-19T11:25:00.000-05:002006-12-19T11:25:00.000-05:00My heart goes out to your family, I am so sorry. ...My heart goes out to your family, I am so sorry. Having the hope get so high and then hit so low makes it even harder to deal with. I hope that time helps heal your hearts.<br />this is just another jenny - it won't let me log in (damn blogger beta).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-70760390929793002552006-12-19T11:07:00.000-05:002006-12-19T11:07:00.000-05:00I am so fucking sorry that you and M have to deal ...I am so fucking sorry that you and M have to deal with this, Smarsh. My love to the both of you.Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765237663006604157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-73098476501886382492006-12-19T11:04:00.000-05:002006-12-19T11:04:00.000-05:00Oh Smarshy
I am very, very sorry for you and M. ...Oh Smarshy<br /><br />I am very, very sorry for you and M. Please take very good care of each other and be extra gentle. I will be thinking of you and hoping you heal and that Buggins bright smile keeps the depression away for the most part.Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771351540802344987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-18201233299724611382006-12-19T11:03:00.000-05:002006-12-19T11:03:00.000-05:00I'm really terribly sorry to read this news. It's...I'm really terribly sorry to read this news. It's no fun at all.Ms. Perkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06923832430040384294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-5566553972786671402006-12-19T10:38:00.000-05:002006-12-19T10:38:00.000-05:00I am so sorry. Sending you many prayers... But, I ...I am so sorry. Sending you many prayers... But, I know nothing can take away your pain. :(Tina / Anxious Changerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05455878557333244801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-25242145878248800452006-12-19T10:30:00.000-05:002006-12-19T10:30:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry Smarshy & M. You both are in my thoug...I'm so sorry Smarshy & M. You both are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.songbird36https://www.blogger.com/profile/16589655759313650227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-22750237771453813802006-12-19T10:29:00.000-05:002006-12-19T10:29:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how difficult IF...I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how difficult IF would be when you have a child. Like you said, she wants to be happy and play and you need time to grieve.<br /><br />Please give my best to M.<br /><br />I'm so very sorry.BigP's Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07124157582246972372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-8751157393915709482006-12-19T09:25:00.000-05:002006-12-19T09:25:00.000-05:00*($)#&*()!&*)*)$^@*)$@*()$&*@!(%)&*@()#^~*_$&@!*(_...*($)#&*()!&*)*)$^@*)$@*()$&*@!(%)&*@()#^~*_$&@!*(_$()_$%&@#*()^@*($)^@!*&(#O)@<br /><br />and<br /><br />I'm very very sad and sorry.KatieMchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11879680348120419952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-4767647768532606302006-12-19T08:25:00.000-05:002006-12-19T08:25:00.000-05:00Smarshy, I'm so sorry that you and M are going thr...Smarshy, I'm so sorry that you and M are going through this. This just plain sucks. Take care of each other.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09470294035411779411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-81683715863564300282006-12-19T08:03:00.000-05:002006-12-19T08:03:00.000-05:00Like everyone else, my heart goes out to you. The...Like everyone else, my heart goes out to you. The same thing happened me this past summer and it was a horrible experience to keep having to go back for more blood draws and watch the number slowly fall. We try to plan for the "yes" or "no" but it's the "maybe" that kills us.<br /><br />Best holidays to you, M, and the Buggins.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-3024665965005703392006-12-19T07:41:00.000-05:002006-12-19T07:41:00.000-05:00Hey Smarshy, so sorry to hear the bad news.
Like...Hey Smarshy, so sorry to hear the bad news. <br /><br />Like so many I can't find the right words other than, our thoughts are with you and take care of your family.<br /><br />PaulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33290604.post-20464734736880598562006-12-19T07:35:00.000-05:002006-12-19T07:35:00.000-05:00One again we find ourselves asking -why? It has ne...One again we find ourselves asking -why? It has never been fair that good people like you two can't get the only thing you truly want. My heart goes out to you both.Give the Buggins an extra hug tonight and maybe that will help ease the sadness.OHNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03856294075428012923noreply@blogger.com